An Effective Technique for Forgiveness
Thoughts have healing power.
Thoughts are energy waves transmitted by the brain.
The brain also functions as a receiver of thoughts.
Because thoughts are energy they can be positive or negative.
Constructive or destructive..etc…(about self or someone else)
If you have a negative thought about someone.
Their unconscious mind will receive this negative thought, and because, as
Einstein stated, all energy travels in an arc, so the thought will return
to the point of origin. The thought returns to you.
Put a pen on a piece of paper and draw an arc from
point A, and continue drawing this arc and you will
eventually form a circle.
The pen is the thought sent from A and eventually
returning to the source, point A. ‘As ye sow, so shall you reap’,
‘cast your bread on the water and it will return hundredfold’,
‘what goes around, comes around’.
Send negative thoughts to someone they get it, but so do you.
Send positive thoughts to someone they get it, and so do you.
This phenomena is known as ‘psychic energy’.
Is it a proven scientific fact thoughts affect objects? Absolutely!
In the book Secret Life of Plants by Peter Tompkins and Christopher Bird, they wrote about
Cleve Backster and his experiments in 1966 with a galvanometer (lie detector) and a Dracaena
massangeana plant. Backster’s experiments proved that plants, which were hooked up to his polygraph machine, react to thoughts directed at them.
Marcel Vogel expanded on Backster’s work after reading a paper by Backster called Do Plants have Emotions? Vogel proved through years of experimentation that plants and humans can interact. He proved that positive or negative thoughts do affect plants. And so it follows, if plants react to our thoughts, so do people we think about. They may not be consciously aware of receiving the thought,
but their unconscious gets it. The energy of thoughts sent by you is
received by the person you are thinking about, and returns to you. What goes around comes around.
If a person is somehow aware negative thoughts are coming to them they can bless the thought, changing the energy into positive, so that when the thought returns to the sender it changes the cycle. Using this scientifically proven information the following is a technique on how to forgive someone.
Bring up the negative feeling you have about this person and notice
where you feel it in your body.
Notice what part of the body that negative feeling connects
to the person in front of you.
Get a visual of the connection. What does this negative energy look like?
Then imagine an energy you could use to cut or break this connection.
The energy used to sever this negative connection would be an energy
that symbolizes unconditional love.
The energy might be golden scissors or sheers with unconditional love inscribed on the
side. It could a rainbow, or just one color symbolizing unconditional love.
After the connection has be severed, feel the release of that connection.
Then imagine some substance, like snow flakes, moon dust, gold dust,
fairy dust, or merely a healing light, signifying health, prosperity, and
happiness.
That’s it.
You——–6 feet——–the person you want to forgive.
Feel and see the connection.
Cut the connection.
See healthy, happy, prosperous energy flowing to the person.
My personal experience with this technique.
Many years ago, after reading The Secret Life of Plants, I decided to see
if this technique could be applied to a person I knew. I chose my father.
I closed my eyes and imagined my father standing about six feet in front
of me. I brought up some anger I had towards him, and I imagined where
that energy connected to him. My anger I felt in my chest and the energy
connected to his chest. The negative energy, anger, emanating from me
and connecting to my father looked like a thick braided rope. I imagined
taking a large pair of scissors, much like a pair of sheers with unconditional
love printed on the side. When I cut the braided rope I felt the release from
that connection. I then imagined golden snowflakes gently falling on my
father. The golden snowflakes symbolizes health, happiness, and prosperity,
as much as he could experience at that particular time.
I used this visualization, not every day, but did do it at least four times a week.
When I was in the shower I would close my eyes, see my father, see the connection,
cut it, and see the golden snowflakes falling on him, and wishing him health, happiness,
and prosperity. It took about thirty seconds. Why didn’t I do it every day? There was
part of me that was a little skeptical so I didn’t put a lot of time and energy into it.
And another thing, this was all coming from my head and not my heart because of
my skepticism.
I did this for a little over three months. One day I was talking to my father on the phone,
we lived in different states, and at the end of the conversation, before he hung up, he said,
“Rich I just want you to know I love you.” WOW!! I said, “I…I…I…I love you too Dad.”
I was floored, I had never, ever heard those words ever come out of my father’s mouth.
Not to me, or my Mother, or any of his siblings, not to anyone. I was convinced this worked.
And I’ll tell you about another incident with my father that again validated my belief in this
technique. My father did something to me as a child that was very traumatizing to me. As he
got older I always wanted to confront him about the experience. I was relaying this childhood
experience to a friend of mine who is also a counselor and he asked me to get on the phone and
call him right now. “Are you crazy”, I said. “You don’t know my father. If he doesn’t like what
he’s hearing he hangs up the phone.” Phoning him was not an option. A few days later I went
to lunch with another friend of mine and she suggested that I fly back home and have a face to
face talk with him. That too was out of the question. I said to her, “Why would I invest all that time, money, and energy to fly across the country for a fifteen minute conversation that he would deny
anyway?” I told her that I was going to write him a letter explaining my perception of what happen
when I was a child. I would allow a few days to pass giving him ample time to read the letter and
then I would call. She thought that was a good idea and as we were leaving the restaurant she said to
me, “You know Richard on some level your father just got this conversation.” I agreed.
This was on the Friday before Father’s Day which fell on a Sunday. For some unexplainable reason
I never wrote the letter, but decided to talk to him about it when I called him on Father’s Day.
When I called he answered the phone and I started talking about the experience that happened in my childhood. He listened to what I had to say, and as I expected, he denied having anything to do with
what had happened. That was OK with me, at least I got it off my chest. I then starting about his childhood, his siblings, and his dreams and aspirations as a young man. It was actually the longest
conversation I had ever had with my Father, over an hour. Before he hung up he said, “You know
Rich this conversation was much better than a letter.” Again I almost fell off the chair, “Yes I know
Dad”, I said and hung up the phone. The reason I was so surprised was that he was conscious of
conversation and thoughts I had about sending him a letter, in such a short time.
Breaking the negative connection before, when using the visualization, took months to reach his conscious mind. Why is that? I cannot honestly say, but I can honestly say, it does work.
Another story, I was teaching class one day and telling this story of the anger and forgiveness
visualization I did with my Father. A student asked if I would teach her how to do this process.
She came up in front of the class and sat in the recliner. She had fibromyalgia for 12 years.
He had incredible anger towards her sister. They lived only three blocks from one another, but
never physically saw each other. They communicated by phone or e-mail.
In the recliner she closed her eyes got in touch with the anger she had towards her sister.
Noticed where she felt it anger in her body and where it connected to her sister.
She had a visual for the connection, hers was a barbed wire. She imagined severing the connection with a rainbow and visualized a beautiful ray of sunlight shinning down on her sister filling her with health, happiness, and prosperity, as much as sister could experience at that moment.
This was a Saturday class, and when she came in the following Saturday she relayed her story to the rest of the class. She said when she went home after doing the visualization in class she felt pretty good. She went to bed that night and woke up without any pain. She as totally amazed. She had pain for 12 years and zap it was gone! She went on to say later that Sunday afternoon there was a knock on
her front door. When she opened the door there stood her sister. She had not physically seen her sister
for 5 years. Needless to say she was flabbergasted, and on top of that her sister came to see her to apologize for some nasty thing she said to her on the phone a few days before.
The woman’s fibromyalgia never came back!
So there you have it. This technique works, it may be a long time before something manifests, or
it may happen quickly, but it will work.
Richard Corvino, M.A., CHt
www.weslandinstitute.com
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Richard Corvino received his Masters degree from the University of Arizona and went on to become a Certified NLP Master Practitioner and Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. He is the Director of Education and founder of Wesland Institue, a training center that offers comprehensive and affordable hypnotherapy and NLP certification programs. Wesland Institute began operation in 1988..

